Solo Parent Podcast
This week we’re discussing From Panic to Plan: Thriving as a Solo Parent on a Budget.
For a lot of solo parents, the finances were never really theirs to begin with. Someone else handled it, and then one day that changed completely. No transition, no training, no runway. Just a pile of bills, a household to run, and children depending on every decision you make.
Robert Beeson, Founder and CEO of Solo Parent, and Elizabeth Cole, single parent, sit down with Shirley Baldiris, a single mom, Solo Parent community member, and emerging financial coach trained through Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University. Shirley woke up one morning facing four months of back rent, a home in foreclosure, and debt she didn’t know existed. What she built from that starting point, and how she built it, is what this conversation is about.
Most financial advice was not designed for the single income, single parent reality. Shirley’s approach was. And the practical steps she shares are ones solo parents can actually use.
Key Insights from This Episode:
- Start with your four walls, not your full financial picture. When everything feels urgent, protecting your roof, food, transportation, and utilities first gives you a foundation to build from.
- Budgeting in small, honest increments builds more than a plan. Starting week by week instead of month by month creates the consistency and self-trust that makes financial stability possible over time.
- Negotiating with lenders is a skill, and it works more often than you think. Being honest about your situation with landlords, credit card companies, and mortgage lenders can open doors that most solo parents never think to knock on.
Shirley closed by saying what every solo parent in a financial crisis needs to hear: you have the intelligence, you have the stamina, and you are absolutely qualified to take hold of this. The panic is not the whole story.
Resources Mentioned in This Episode:
- Financial Peace University (Dave Ramsey)
- The Four Walls Framework (Dave Ramsey)
Stay Connected + Get Support:


Listen now
Honest conversations. Real stories. Practical wisdom.
Don’t miss the latest powerful episode of the Solo Parent podcast! Each week, we’re tackling real challenges solo parents face, sharing honest stories, and offering expert advice to help you navigate this journey with confidence. Whether you need encouragement, practical strategies, or just the reassurance that you’re not alone, this podcast is for you. Press play and join the conversation!
Go deeper
Show Notes
You already feel behind. Not because of the bills specifically, or the debt, or the paycheck that never quite stretches
Most of us learned to manage our emotions by eliminating them. Not through some intentional practice, but through sheer necessity.
The fear isn’t really about logistics. It’s not the schedule or the finances or even the loneliness, though all of
You already know something is wrong before you can name it. It’s not just the circumstances. It’s the feeling underneath
There are moments in solo parenting that look fine from the outside. The kids are fed. Homework is done. You
Most solo parents carry a version of the same fear. Not the loud, urgent kind, but the slow-burning one. The
You already feel behind. Not because of the bills specifically, or the debt, or the paycheck that never quite stretches
Have a Question?
Ask Us Anything!
Looking for Older Episodes?
Find an archive of previous Solo Parent podcast episodes at AccessMore: