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This week we’re discussing Why Do I Feel Like Damaged Goods?
Most of us don’t walk around calling ourselves damaged. But the belief shows up anyway. In the way you brace before getting close to someone. In the quiet assumption that what happened to you says something permanent about who you are. Whether it came from loss, from words spoken over you in a hard season, from a relationship that ended badly or one that never got to begin, the feeling has a way of becoming identity before you even realize it happened.
Robert Beeson, Founder and CEO of Solo Parent, sits down with Elizabeth Cole, single parent and co-host, and Amber Fuller, a counselor with a Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy and single parent herself, for an honest conversation about why so many solo parents carry a private belief that they are somehow less than. Less worthy of connection. Less capable of being loved well. And what it actually looks like to start believing something different – not through willpower, but through the right people and the right environments.
Key Insights from This Episode:
- The “damaged goods” feeling has company. Virtually every solo parent carries some version of this, and naming that out loud is the first thing that starts to shift it.
- The broken mirror wasn’t you. The voices that told you something was wrong with you came from somewhere – and that source matters more than you think.
- Shame doesn’t heal in isolation. Getting into environments where someone else says “me too” does something that self-help and positive thinking simply can’t.
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